COUNTING BACKWARDS
Relaxing in the balcony suddenly I hear slow counting scores
Five ....four .....three ....two .....and then abruptly no more ?
Oh ! It's a mature lady's voice ,certainly not of a small kid on the run
I wonder what happened .....why does she not say number one?
My imagination takes a dive what was she counting loud there ?
Eggs for breakfast or croissants or were they ripe juicy pears ?
Or may be practicing reverse counting for an Olympiad fare ?
What ever it be it certainly intrigued me this seemed quite rare !
Up the rickety stairs I run to poke my nose into her homeland
Cling cling I ring the bell introducing myself with folded hands
She had just uttered ....four ......eying me she counted no more
Instead sternly looked at her kids gesturing them out of the door !
Hey ! It was then that I realized ,this is a countdown to obedience device
a superb nonviolent way of disciplining kids to good sense positive vibes,
Before ONE is said the kid must do what has been expressed
This certainly saves him from being physically hurt and spanked
for violent disciplining surely needs to be absolutely outranked !
On exiting I hear " That aunty's visit saved you dear
now give your sis back that toy I hate to ever spank you my boy"
She starts counting now again five ..four ..three ...two ..and so
lo and behold ! the counting game begins once more !!!
At the count of two ..she sighs! and takes a big big pause
for she does not ever want to hit her kids for any cause
The kids shiver like mad just before the dreaded " one" is said
they willingly scamper to abide to their mums request with pride !!!
Back it was the rod that ruled the roost to discipline kids in
Counting forward beats was then in fashion in frenzied fits
Thanks to this evolved mum's superb mathematical acumen
counting backward seems a more sensible way of disciplining !
Dear friends ,
"Spare the rod and spoil the child " is an age old impression
How much do you believe in this violence favored expression !!!
Please do share why it's the power of love and not the power of rod
which needs to be practiced to discipline the blossoming tiny tots !!!
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